Dream and give yourself permission to envision a You that you choose to be.
Information can bring you choices and choices bring power - educate yourself about your options and choices. Never remain in the dark of ignorance.
Instead of focusing on that circumstances that you cannot change - focus strongly and powerfully on the circumstances that you can.
People desire to separate their worlds into polarities of dark and light, ugly and beautiful, good and evil, right and wrong, inside and outside. Polarities serve us in our learning and growth, but as souls we are all.